Why are we so hypocritical

It is possible that you are a hypocrite; it’s okay, it’s normal, it’s fine, it’s not about judging, it’s about being aware of it.

Maybe you’re a hypocrite and haven’t stopped to think about it to realize it. If you are a hypocrite, you should know that.

According to the dictionary, a hypocrite is someone who feigns a quality, feeling, virtue or opinion that he does not have.

Throughout life we build a character, a character of ourselves, that is, our personality. Since we are children, our ego works to protect us, to make us survive, and to be accepted by others, which conditions our behavior, our beliefs and our way of thinking.

Experiences and experiences mark us, we go through moments we never forget, especially those in which we have been vulnerable, from which we learn and form our character.

We become hypocrites without realizing it, beings who pretend what we are not in order to be socially accepted.

Largely because of our low self-esteem, we need to fake a character. Sometimes, as time goes by, we become very different from the way we were as children, the classic example of the sensitive and vulnerable child (Enneatype 8 in the enneagram) who gets hurt at school and ends up becoming the neighborhood bully.

Experiences like this condition us, turning us into real hypocrites, stupid, insecure, hypochondriacs, insensitive, victimists, pessimists, arrogant, cynics or materialists.

The important thing is not that you are indeed a hypocrite or a cretin, but that you realize it, that you are aware that it is so, why it is so and its origin.

If you are aware of it, you will be able to identify it, understand it and thus remedy it.

All this is closely related to low self-esteem, the greater the ego trait, such as arrogance, haughtiness, or the lower our self-esteem and self-esteem.

We live in a materialistic society, people’s value is in what they have and their money. When our self-esteem is low, we tend to value ourselves for what we have because we value ourselves too little and therefore, we value others to the same superficial and materialistic extent.

The awakening of consciousness is to be aware, is to realize all this, to question your behavior, your way of thinking, and your beliefs and start being yourself by dismantling the character of your personality and changing your realities.

Don’t believe anything you just read, experiment and think for yourself.

Wake up

Wake up!